Hi Marianne, Thanks for this. I woke up this morning with the thought that we had meant to record the workshops - and couldn't remember if I was supposed to do it! (Thanks for Organising the recording too Jan)
One comment I have is the wording for the shared skills item, which was: "What skills do you *WANT *to share". The wording shifts the focus to what the individual would like to share, rather than what each member think the group wants. And in the process, we find that what we WANT to share as individuals, is just as advantageous and welcome to the group as skills we share or contribute because we feel the group needs us to do so.
I wonder if those who couldn't make it to the workshop would like to participate via email? What skills do you WANT to share? What do you want out of co-housing community living? How many shared meals would you like per week? What time do you prefer shared dinner to be?
Best regards Min
On 28/07/2019 2:06 PM, mariannequinn@xtra.co.nz wrote:
Hi team: at the end of yesterday’s meeting, Jan invited me to put some notes together and so I’ve done so, entirely from memory, so I know I’ll have left out things that others may want to add in.
*Present*: Jan, Gay, Min, Anne, Sara, Maria, Miriam, Donald, Sandy, Frances, Warren, Pauline, Sue T, Alex and myself.
Thanks to Jan, Gaye and Min for creating a lively and informative work shop yesterday afternoon, and also to Sander for letting us in to the Centre.
For those of you who weren’t there, here’s a few highlights as I recall them – and others, please add your recollections.
We first formed into small groups and *shared the skills we’re willing to bring*. Examples included pruning roses and fruit trees; planting vegetable gardens; shopping for families on a limited income; sewing large curtains and supplying sewing machines ( it seems at least five are available); bread making ( with and without bread makers); ‘fixing things’ ( at least two of our group cite this as a hobby); cleaning ( Sara had already decided as she is close to the Guest accommodation, she was willing to ensure this is clean and tidy for visitors- a most welcome offer!), dishwashing and general kitchen clean up ( at least three people cited this as something they find enjoyable), food preparation/ chopping/ etc; food shopping; meal planning; a capacity to listen and keep listening ( a heartening number of people); a large and inexhaustible capacity for optimism in the creativeness of groups ( at least two of us); Jan on being a ‘night owl’ so highly likely to be up in the Common House till 1am if anyone can’t sleep/ wants a chat; being willing to demonstrate 7 minute fitness workouts; to teach dance; and a willingness to follow directions. A great start!
As the saying goes ‘/hungry people see cake shops’/ and I know my ears will have been finely attuned to certain pieces of information, such as number of nights we’d like to have meals available in the common house, and less to others… so there’ll be more.
We then talked about *what we were looking for*. Responses included always knowing there was always someone who’d be willing to go to the movies; opportunities to learn new skills such as languages, work working, fitness ( especially if its possible to turn up in pajamas); vegetable growing; plant cultivation; sharing / rationalizing vehicles; meals provided at least a couple of nights a week; informal socializing; child care; computer technological advice; expanded kitchen skills; learning more about the foods of different cultures; and creating opportunities for celebration and community.
Reference was made to Jan’s vision for the */Family Fun Day/* in June 2018 when against the general skepticism of many in the group, she created a highly successful day that had close to 300 adults and children through the site participating in a range of activities to fit every age group, and all in three weeks! We were all surprised both by how successful it was and how much fun we each had. It gave us an idea of how we can pool together to create positive events for our group and the wider community.
We finished the day after a couple of ‘straw polls’ about *how many meals* we’d like to see provided in the common house *each week*. Across this group, the mean number was *two,* with a possible addition of a ‘pot luck Friday’.
*Timing of meals* varied between 6 – 8pm, with a mean of *7pm*, taking into account the needs of young children and also the habits of the two night owls, who tend to eat at 10pm at present.
The suggested number of cooks and assistants on each ‘*cook team’ was four*, with two more experienced folk and two ‘choppers/ stirrers/ sorters.
We wound up at 5pm. Thanks again to all who contributed to a lively afternoon!
Next month’s meeting will be focusing more directly on Body Corp rules. We hope to welcome Anna and Antony ( sp), who are taking over D1, Rachel’s Unit, at that meeting.
Regards,
Marianne
Marianne Quinn
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P.O. Box 20, Dunedin 9054
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